Thanks for all the suggestions. I've tried repeated blasts of compressed air but it won't budge.... it is wedged in there, perhaps because I've repeatedly tried to push a socket down on it. I've also tried a couple of sharp pointed tools but the fact the spark plug well is so deep, space so limited, and how you're working blind makes this tough. What I don't want to do is get something additional wedged in there or have it break off that is more troublesome than the original problem.
i think my best approach is to take a spark plug socket and grind a slot in the wall so that the socket will go down over the object. Then I bet I can torque is sideways and get it to dislodge. Might even be able to make it so I can get underneath it and pull upwards. Worst case, I can start torquing the plug out with the rock still there, although I want to avoid this if I can as I could see it falling into the engine. The cheapo socket in the toolkit is probably a good candidate for this as I can dremel it to be "stone removal tool."
Wish me luck. I'm leaving on tour in a few days, so I just buttoned it back up with three new plugs and one old. I'll get to it this fall sometime. I'm going to take the tank completely off too which will help.
Thanks for all the help guys.
- Mark